My mom and I are very different. She has black hair, mine is brown. She has brown eyes, mine are blue. She is average height, I’m tall. She eats tuna fish, I don’t.
My mom and I are alike too! We both like the beach. We both enjoy a nice glass of wine with a pasta dish. We both like shopping. We both put others before ourselves.
Sometimes though we are too much alike, it’s scary. We’ll be shopping together and go to the dressing room with the same shirt to try on. Or begin reading the same book without knowing the other one is reading it.
Last week, after grocery shopping, we were talking on the phone…
“I’ve been craving graham crackers with my sleepy time tea” I said to my mom. “I finally bought some today!”
“Me too,” she said.
“I bought the cinnamon kind though. They looked too good,” I said. My mom starts to laugh. “Why are you laughing at me? The little things in life make me happy.”
“I’m not laughing at you,” my mom says. “I’m laughing because I did the exact same thing today. I had the plain ones in my cart and then at the last minute switched to the cinnamon. We are too much alike.”
I start laughing too. “No way! Get out of my head, mom! How is it that we are in 2 different states and just managed to do the exact same thing, AGAIN?!”
Dinner is ready for my mom so she hurries off the phone. 2 seconds later I get this text:
We really are best friends!
Happy Birthday, Mom!
What a wonderful glimpse at the bound between you and your mom.
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What a sweet story and birthday gift. I love these glimpses into your relationship with your mom. It gives me hope for the future with my girls. Happy birthday! ❤️
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Such a sweet story! Your relationship is very special. 🙂
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You’re so lucky to be so connected to your mom! Crazy that even your cravings are the same!
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What a fabulously sweet slice! It is completely bizarre when that happens! It’s happened for me and my own girls before! Thanks for sharing!!
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Love this post. I think this can happen to anyone who is closely tied to another person. You are so lucky to have your best friend.
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So lucky !
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How lucky you are to have this kind of connection with your mom. My mom and I were also different, but in some ways extremely similar. Enjoy your crackers and tea!
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